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What do you do when your prayers don’t get answered? July 6, 2008 - Dale
What do you do when your prayers don’t get answered? (a) Keep praying? (b) Stop praying? (c) Pray for something else? (d) Get angry? (e) Tell God he owes you? (f) Give up? (g) Answer the prayer yourself? (h) Look for alternative sources of help? (i) agree that prayer is probably a pretend game? (j) Something else …
“Getting answers to prayers” often means, “getting God to do what we ask for”. But that is making the playing field quite small. It does not seem to give God much room to move. Even general prayers such as “Please help me” can carry our own un-stated assumptions about what kind of help we need – and when we need it.
Of course we are asking the question in a fairly mechanical way. What if we asked instead about when God does not respond to the person who is praying. Read the rest of the Article. Post a Comment [0 Comments]
The Perfect Match June 29, 2008 - Dale
Is getting married about finding the perfect match for yourself? The person created by God just for you? A kind of unique fit – someone who fits you and only you? And vice versa of course.
And if there is, how to do you know which one it is? Is there some chemistry that lets you both know? Or a sign? Is “falling in love” the proof that is needed? By now some of those who have been married for a while will be muttering something like “romantic nonsense”. Some of the romantics will be rationalising or still in denial.
The questions are romantic questions of course. The question of two people being a “perfect match” is not the same question as to whether they have “true love”. But the two questions do have something in common. They assume that love and matching come ready-made. ... Read the rest of the Article. Post a Comment
Fathers June 15, 2008 - Dale
Fathers have been under siege in the last couple of decades. But some recent films have managed to portray some of the complexities of being a father. The Kite Runner comes to mind as does the earlier film Babel.
Most fathers will identify with the pressures described in these films. Grief, tragedy, work pressures, conflicts in family, political and economic stress, absence from children, and uncertainty about how to be a father.
Both films give a sense of things out of control, of situations not encountered before. Being films, the stories are perhaps exaggerated. But not untrue. Across many cultures and traditions, the culture and tradition is changing. Old patterns are no longer in place. What our fathers did is not always a help to us because we find ourselves in circumstances that don’t have any history. Things were not like this before. Read the rest if the Article. Post a Comment |
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Life is not Fair! June 8, 2008 - Ian
Life is an important topic in
our world at the moment. Life for many students currently is all about exams but
soon it will be about life on holidays. Life is struggling in Myanmar. Life is
getting harder and so a world summit is now being held on how to care for the
poor. Life is more expensive and so there protests about the cost of living.
Life is not fair!
At the point of the ending of a life, at the death of one that we love, or in a dramatic disaster such as the Sichuan Earthquake in China recently, most of us look more closely at life and see that it is unfair; that is harsh, fleeting and is so soon followed by death. ... Read the rest of the article. Post a Comment.
Enough troubles? June 1, 2008 - Dale
Each day has enough troubles of its own, someone once said. But some days seem to have more than enough troubles. Most of us have got used to carrying the usual stresses and troubles. Well, maybe not used to it, but at least we have worked out ways of coping and surviving.
But not all troubles are of the usual kind. It is the new ones that take up more energy. The new pressure or stress or trouble doesn’t come with a best practice solution. So we try various ways to deal with it: trial and error with lots of trials and many errors. Finding the way forward can be very tiring, more so when our emotional or physical reserves are depleted. ... So did the wise person who said each day has enough troubles of its own, have any helpful advice about this? ... Read the rest of the Article. Post a Comment.
A Quiet Night April 27, 2008 - Dale
Numbers and Labels April 6, 2008 - Ian
What kind of Christian? March 30, 2008 - Dale
I met some people last week who said they had decided to call themselves “serious Christians”. They explained that this was instead of calling themselves “committed Christians”. The idea I think was that “committed Christians” has been over-used and needed to be replaced.
But the new term sounds a bit serious, doesn’t it? Almost dour. No jokes. Much stroking of the beard. Except I don’t think that is what these friends had in mind. They are not at all serious in that way. For one thing they laugh too much.
They meant something else... Read the rest of the Article. Post a Comment
The place of suffering March 2, 2008 - Dale
What should Job have done the next time? After his terrible series of disasters and in the middle of his personal suffering, he asked God for a debate, or a hearing in a court of arbitration, or a face to face dialogue.
And then God spoke to him and asked Job what he knew about creating and managing the universe. The series of sustained questions left Job speechless – but he had seen God with his own eyes. He recognised God could do anything, so he stopped complaining.
But having endured both the suffering and the dialogue, what would he do next time? What did he learn that might help him the next time such a thing happened?...
The question is hypothetical for Job. But the lessons learned are understood by Habakkuk. And also by Jesus. The prayer in the garden of Gethsemane is prayed by someone who understands the book of Job. “If it is possible… if not….”
Paul understood the idea as well. But Paul had some advantages over Job. He had seen what happened to Jesus. ... Read the rest of the Article. Post a Comment
God Talk February 24, 2008 - Ian
A religious relationship February 10, 2008 - Ian
More than enough February 3, 2008 - Dale
What do you think of that famous occasion when the people of God were told to stop giving because they had given too much!? On other occasions they were told not to bother because their giving was entirely hypocritical. But on this occasion there was too much to handle. An unmanageable surplus.
Hard to imagine isn’t it? Not many people know about it. But it ought to be better known because it concerns the Great Grumblers. “Why have you led us up this road only to starve us to death?” they said. After one of the most astounding events in their history they settled back into self-pity, self-righteousness and grumbled like mad because they had run out of food.
So the Lord gave them food. As much as they needed. Some collected a lot, some gathered little but all had as much as they needed. No one had too much, no one had too little. But some thought they needed to store some until the next day, despite the fact they were told that there would be enough every day and no one was to store any (what they stored rotted and was full of maggots).
The Great Grumblers were slow learners. Later they ran out of water. ... Read the rest of the article. Post a Comment
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